Today's Daily Lesson: Day 30: Thank You

Featuring Rabbi Raphael Leban from Clean Speech Colorado<.h2>

Today’s video is dedicated in loving memory of Drew Leban, ob”m, who had a sincere, smile and respectful attitude for everyone he spoke with.

The care we take to guard our tongues today shall be a merit for the Almighty to guard Benyamin Meir ben Yaffa Pnina from harm, along with all the soldiers of the IDF, and all the People of Israel.

That’s all, folks! Here we are together at the end of Clean Speech Colorado Volume 5: Words of Greatness.

For the past five years, we have delved into the principles and practices of Jewish mindful speech, and the Clean Speech Team would like to share a little bit of our experience.

We can tell you that we’ve been able to put a lot of these ideas and techniques into practice. We feel like we say less lashon hara, or harmful gossip, than before, and are more likely to avoid onas devarim, or offensive words. We’ve taken advantage of more opportunities to speak with shalom, with ahavas chesed, and with kavod—with peace, with love and kindness, and with honor and respect. The past five campaigns have gotten into our kishkes and changed the way we speak.

That’s all, folks! Here we are together at the end of Clean Speech Colorado Volume 5: Words of Greatness.

For the past five years, we have delved into the principles and practices of Jewish mindful speech, and the Clean Speech Team would like to share a little bit of our experience.

We can tell you that we’ve been able to put a lot of these ideas and techniques into practice. We feel like we say less lashon hara, or harmful gossip, than before, and are more likely to avoid onas devarim, or offensive words. We’ve taken advantage of more opportunities to speak with shalom, with ahavas chesed, and with kavod—with peace, with love and kindness, and with honor and respect. The past five campaigns have gotten into our kishkes and changed the way we speak.

At the same time, we freely admit that we’re far from perfect. We still make mistakes, mishandle conversations, and say things we regret. There’s so much more to learn, and a lot further to go in improving our speech habits.

We can tell you this: The more we work on it, the happier we feel, and the more we enjoy the company of others.

Judaism has always placed a great deal of emphasis on building community. To create successful connections with each other, we must improve the way we speak. 

We want to leave you with three final thoughts.

First of all, we want to thank each and every person who has participated in and contributed to the Clean Speech campaigns, in Colorado and around the world. You are genuine changemakers, and you are bringing the ultimate vision to fruition.

Second, we implore you not to let go or stop working on improving your speech. In this regard and so many others, life is a down escalator. If you’re not hustling to get up, you are guaranteed to sink to the bottom. We can’t let that happen.

Finally, we want to offer a blessing to all of us, that we continue to find inspiration and energy to progress more and more, and to achieve the peaceful, unified, and respectful world that we so desire, one word at a time.

The Clean Speech Team

Try this today:

Decide right now what you’ll do next to keep sharpening your skills of communication: review one of the five volumes of Clean Speech Colorado, sign up for a class or workshop, or study one of the many other great resources on Jewish mindful speech.

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Stories of people who spoke real Words of Greatness can inspire us to grow even more and deepen our commitment to respectful speech.

Here’s a story about Rabbi Akiva Eiger, a renowned Torah scholar and leader of European Jewry in the early 19th century.

Even as a young man, Rabbi Eiger was recognized as an accomplished scholar. Wherever he went, local townsfolk would line up to discuss Torah with him.

One day, however, was different.

Here we are: it’s Day 28. You’re almost finished with the entire 30-day Clean Speech curriculum, and you’re getting the hang of speaking to others with kavod.

You should be proud—but there are difficulties ahead.

Believe it or not, not everyone has completed the curriculum. Some people haven’t even heard of Clean Speech Colorado!

Eventually, you’ll encounter someone who fails to show you the proper kavod and speaks to you with mockery, rudeness, or disrespect.

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